a thought to ponder ...

I am wondering what makes it so that a person
will grab onto and try to maintain
a relationship with someone that they know is all wrong for them
is it something about the ticking time piece
ticking within our soul
reminding us that there is a reason for our presence on this earth

there are those that would argue and say we are here
to populate the planet ...
well, well done I say
it would seem that some parts are now over populated
and feeding the masses
can no longer be done with a few loaves and some fishes ...

I believe our time here is short
we should make the best of it while we can
staying in an abuseful relationship
is not a good thing
having one person harping continually on the other is not a good thing
unless that makes you happy
and in that case ..
hey, god bless !!!
but no one likes to feel that they are being used
it is not our role in life to be with someone else 24/7 everyday
to center our entire world around that one's persons every whim or desire
in order for a healthy relationship
both partners need to give and take, it can not always go in one direction
they need to bring different things to the table, interests, hobbies, life skills ...
it tends to get pretty boring after awhile when there is nothing left to say
because one of the partners does nothing to enhance their lives outside of their partner.

Life is funny
do we really need to settle
when by opening up our possibilities
we can learn to dance ...

even naked in our own brilliance?